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Post by kayleigh on Nov 29, 2013 14:13:50 GMT
Hi all need some advice i should be moving house in febuary march time next year into my partners dads house he rents out ive spoke to councle and things thay said as long as i can prove all i need to i can move in (and i can ) anyway its like 100% im allowed but im so scared its not going to happen somethings going to ruin it and i will have to suffer where i am for the rest of my days i relly am trying all i can to stay hear its just so hard with all thats happend is it just my anxiety/ paranoia getting me into a state about it or should i just brush it off and get excited like i should be ....x
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Post by Nick with OCD on Nov 30, 2013 6:09:54 GMT
I think that it is just anxiety making you feel that way. I was the same when it came to moving into my flat. You should get excited because it is a big step forward in life and it's somewhere new. I think in cases like these everyone gets anxiety issues and starts the "what if" scenarios.
I'm going through this "what if" stage with benefit claims and forms for medical assessments
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Post by kayleigh on Nov 30, 2013 22:04:24 GMT
Deffonatly starts with what is all ive been thinking aboit have tryed to stop but it allways pops back up just rely want to be somewhere i can call jome but feel safe at the same time Hope you get things sorted x
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Post by lucyrob on Dec 1, 2013 14:21:15 GMT
Hey, I think only you will know what feels right. Sometimes you have to take the anxiety out of the situation and look at it. Is this rational or not, y'know? Really hope all goes well x
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Post by Deleted on Dec 15, 2013 17:20:14 GMT
This is just your anxiety panicking because they have said if you can prove, and although you can prove everything, your mind is always doubting and thinking 'but what if'.
I am very certain all will be fine if you have the relevant proof of everything you need!
Xxx
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