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Post by klairebear on Apr 9, 2014 10:04:34 GMT
so i'm planning a wedding and i have been getting quite stressed about it. I have issues with trying on clothes in shops (i have to go myself coz goin with people makes me anxious). im worried its gonna spoil my day.
any tips from people who have planned wedding/gotten married themselves?
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Post by Helen on Apr 11, 2014 9:28:36 GMT
I really have nothing to say about this as I have never been anywhere near married! But I really hope you can manage the stress and get some enjoyment out of the process.
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Post by BethH on Apr 11, 2014 22:52:53 GMT
The only experience I have of this kind of thing was when my friend's mum got married a few years ago. I remember she designated two or three people (her best friend and her mum and I think her sister) who helped her with all the planning she did. So I would suggest putting together a small "team" of people who you trust and who understand the worries you're having, who can be with you or talk to you when you need them to.  |
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Post by klairebear on Apr 12, 2014 18:16:23 GMT
BethH I have my team in terms of bridesmaid. both of my current housemates will be bridesmaid and they are allowed to be "Voice of reason" so i can talk to them and get help.
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Post by BethH on Apr 12, 2014 18:19:36 GMT
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Post by klairebear on Apr 12, 2014 21:23:14 GMT
just worried i'll clam up and not speak and be silly with eating again
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Post by klairebear on Apr 22, 2014 15:51:45 GMT
had two bad attacks in the last week thanks to feeling pressure about the wedding. i know i have 11 months to plan it and we have a lot agreed upon and are organised (according to Tom) but being stressing of hearing so many comments about my day.
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Post by klairebear on Apr 25, 2014 11:06:17 GMT
also my dad is being a jerk. so it makes more sense me getting married in Preston as we have a supportive lovely church family but dad is guilt tripping me over this by saying "in the ideal world you'de be getting married in Glasgow (where I am originally from)". I don't have any church family in Glasgow and they wouldn't know both Tom and I which is what I desire from whoever does the ceremony which is what I have in Preston.
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